Showing posts with label technology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label technology. Show all posts

Monday, January 6, 2014

iPhone 6 Concept Design With New Corning Curved Gorilla Glass


With most smartphone companies gearing up or having already released curved phone designs in some Asian markets, Apple most likely also has something up its sleeve. Curved glass manufacturer Corning has just announced that their 3D-shaped Gorilla Glass is ready for production, prompting speculation of how Apple might use the material in upcoming products. Among the most mentioned are the iWatch and iPhone 6 with a larger curved display. Dutch designer Lewi Hussey, a member of the Apple Fantasy Prototyping League (AFPL), has created images and a video imagining how the iPhone 6 could look with the technology. The results are undoubtedly impressive, with a thinner body and more user-friendly silhouette. Of course for now it’s just a concept, but who knows what Apple might have in store for us in 2014

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Why Bugging Out Is Actually Good For The Soul

Why Bugging Out Is Actually Good For The Soul
We’ve all had them; they let us know that we are alive, that we are still feeling, that we are growing. They are signs that something isn’t right, that you’re not happy, that you need a break. As we get older, they slowly progress from everyday tantrums to monthly, yearly or decade-worthy meltdowns. With the stress of work, relationships and just life in general, it’s only normal to feel the need to break down once in a while.
They come in different forms: you may freak out at your roommate for leaving the peanut butter out or just punch a wall, alone in your empty apartment. We watch celebrities who are forced to share their meltdown on screen, in front of paparazzi and splattered on tabloids. Their inability to cope for minutes, hours or days is a sign that they are losing it, that they are crazy. But aren’t we all the same? We’re all just humans and breaking down is a necessary part of life.

“Crying does not indicate that you are weak. Since birth, it has always been a sign that you are alive.”- Charlotte Brontë
Many times you think you have control over when your breakdown will occur, but it can be a simple word or image on the television screen or subway ad that unravels you. It can be a fight with a friend or a cold word from your boss at work. Whatever it is, it’s the necessary trigger for the epic blowout that needs to happen. Because, in a life full of competition, stress and bottled emotion, a good meltdown every now and then is healthy.
Everyone is a little bit crazy, and there are going to be times when that crazy needs to come out. It’s a natural human process to need to let go of the superficial exterior fibers we’ve wrapped our lives in. If you do not take the time to have a meltdown, it will inevitably come out as something else, something much harder to handle.
Meltdowns are therapy. They are a way for the heart to release the heavy pressure weighing down on it, whether you are consciously aware of it or not. It’s a way to release yourself of the bottled up emotions, pains and regrets that pile up in the back of your subconscious. The embarrassment that comes after a meltdown of epic proportions is always high, but well worth it.
So if you live alone, or with a roommate, don’t try to fight of the bubbling deep down that’s dying to escape in heavy wails and tears. Let yourself go, have a meltdown, because they really are good for the soul.

It’s Necessary


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There is no way people can go through life always bottling up their emotions. It’s neither healthy nor natural and there comes a time when everyone needs a release. Remember when we were kids and it would happen when our parents told us there wasn’t any chocolate milk left?
Well, it’s no longer caused by trivial inconveniences, but painful, real-life problems that will cause you about the same amount of anxiety and pain as missing chocolate milk. However, this time if you don’t have your meltdowns when you feel them creeping towards the surface, you will explode in an undesirable location.

It’s Cathartic


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With all the emotions you feel on a daily basis, getting them all out in one large dramatic session is very cathartic. Let all the times you wanted to scream at work, or cry around your friend who just got engaged, come out. Let the death of your mother, father, sibling be mourned. Let the pain you feel have its deserving moment.

It Clears Your Head


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There is always a reason behind a breakdown. Maybe it’s just been a long month, maybe you’ve been holding onto a breakup that you can’t let go. Whatever the reason, the breakdown is there to let you know that something isn’t right, that you’re unhappy. The meltdown is just a clear sign that it’s time to stop pretending and face how you really feel.

It’s A Fresh Start


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Breakdowns are good for clearing everything out and starting again. It’s like making a mess before you finally clean up. It’s the final party on your dingy college floor before you finally realize it’s time for a good cleaning. Much like your disgusting college frat house, your mind needs a good clean sweep. You can’t possibly keep a certain level of sanity without letting out all of the crazy once in a while. Think of it as a spring cleaning for your heart, mind and body.

It’s Fun — Back To The Roots


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Sometimes it’s just exhilarating to have a good cry. With all the pent up emotions, forced smiles and alternate personalities, it’s fun to unleash the beast. Sometimes you just gotta let the crazy out and go wild. Maybe it’s a way of getting back to your roots, those childhood days when it was okay to scream about missing Pokemon cards and gummy bears.
Top photo: Entourage/HBO

Apple, Google, Twitter, Facebook And Other Tech Giants Demand Change To The US Surveillance Laws

Apple, Google, Twitter, Facebook And Other Tech Giants Demand Change To The US Surveillance Laws
America‘s leading technology companies have united to demand significant changes in US surveillance laws, pushing for an international ban on data being collected in bulk in order to preserve their customers’ “trust in the internet.”

The Guardian reports that Apple, Google, Microsoft, Facebook, Yahoo!, LinkedIn, Twitter and AOL have written a joint-letter to Washington in response to the disclosures of NSA whistleblower Edward Snowden.

“The balance in many countries has tipped too far in favour of the state and away from the rights of the individual – rights that are enshrined in our constitution,” the letter urges.“This undermines the freedoms we all cherish. It’s time for change.”
The companies claim Snowden’s revelations have made people afraid of subscribing to them, thus making the NSA a threat to the American economy and private sector.

“People won’t use technology they don’t trust,” said Brad Smith of Microsoft’s general counsel. “Governments have put this trust at risk, and governments need to help restore it.”
Another composer of the letter was Yahoo! CEO Marissa Mayer:

“Recent revelations about government surveillance activities have shaken the trust of our users, and it is time for the United States government to act to restore the confidence of citizens around the world,” she said.
The letter also features a list of five “reform principles” derived by bipartisan legislation to limit the power of the NSA proposed by Patrick Leahy, the Democratic chair of the Senate judiciary committee, and Rep. Jim Sensenbrenner, the Republican author of the Patriot Act.

The tech firms, along with Leahy and Sensenbrenner, agree that the NSA should not be allowed to gather mass quantities of data from people it does not have cause to suspect of terrorism.

“Governments should limit surveillance to specific, known users for lawful purposes, and should not undertake bulk data collection of internet communications,” reads the list of principles.
The companies argue that request for data should be limited by a new set of rules that balance the “need for the data in limited circumstances, users’ reasonable privacy interests, and the impact on trust in the internet.”

Another previous demand repeated in the letter states that tech companies should be allowed to reveal how often requests for data are made.

The proposed legislation directly conflicts with a rival bill composed by Dianne Feinstein, the Democratic chair of the Senate Intelligence Committee, which would cement and protect the NSA’s right to collect data in bulk.

The eight companies also highlight the fear that responses to Snowden’s leaks will not only hurt them commercially, but also lead to the government dividing the web into separate warring units to prevent tech companies from seeking business overseas.

“The ability of data to flow or be accessed across borders is essential to a robust, 21st century, global economy,” the companies argue.“Governments should permit the transfer of data and should not inhibit access by companies or individuals to lawfully available information that is stored outside of the country. Governments should not require service providers to locate infrastructure within a country’s borders or operate locally.”
They also argue that foreign governments should agree on a new set of standards for regulating surveillance in order to prevent legal disputes that could damage international trade.

“In order to avoid conflicting laws, there should be a robust, principled, and transparent framework to govern lawful requests for data across jurisdictions, such as improved mutual legal assistance treaty – or “MLAT” – processes,” say the companies. “Where the laws of one jurisdiction conflict with the laws of another, it is incumbent upon governments to work together to resolve the conflict.”
Internet pioneer Martha Lane Fox, a former digital ambassador to Britain, told the Guardian that the letter displays a lack of understanding regarding the scale and complexity of the British government’s surveillance programs.

“We do have an issue in this country among the corporate world, the political establishment and the general population where we have a shortage of skills and understanding for the digital age,” she said.“There is an absence of a clear, coherent debate around this subject in this country and it’s a very big issue that will only become more frequent the more technologically dependent we become. [The government] needs to listen to people, to examine whether their policies are fit for the digital age. It’s not that people aren’t used to their data being collected, but what it is being collected for, and there needs to be a distinction between the average person and a security threat.”
The letter concludes with the eight companies stressing that all businesses have the responsibility to protect the privacy of their clients or customers.

“For our part, we are focused on keeping users’ data secure, deploying the latest encryption technology to prevent unauthorised surveillance on our networks, and by pushing back on government requests to ensure that they are legal and reasonable in scope,” it says.“We urge the US to take the lead and make reforms that ensure that government surveillance efforts are clearly restricted by law, proportionate to the risks, transparent and subject to independent oversight.”
Google, Twitter, Yahoo! and, as of last week, Microsoft have all heightened the security of their products by introducing “perfect forward secrecy,” a type of encryption that protects data on their internal systems.

“The security of users’ data is critical, which is why we’ve invested so much in encryption and fight for transparency around government requests for information,” said Google’s chief executive, Larry PageThis is undermined by the apparent wholesale collection of data, in secret and without independent oversight, by many governments around the world. It’s time for reform and we urge the US government to lead the way.”
Via: The Guardian, Top Photo Credit: Justin Sullivan/Getty Images

Saturday, November 30, 2013

Why The PC Is Better Than The Xbox One And PS4


The PS4 is undoubtedly at the forefront of console technology but the latest high-end gaming PCs are capable of better graphics
The PS4 is undoubtedly at the forefront of console technology but the latest high-end gaming PCs are capable of better graphics
With both highly-anticipated next gen consoles from Sony and Microsoft MSFT +1.41% now sitting on etailer’s shelves, games as we know it are about to change. There’s no denying that the console market has, for a number of years, dictated how the graphics in modern games is developed and in many cases, the PC was left with mere ports of games that high-end models could run with their eyes shut – if PC’s had eyes that is.
Thankfully, both the new consoles have received beefed-up specifications that will only help to give game visuals a much-needed boost, driving development forward with this being a good thing for both console and gaming PC owners.
However, while the new consoles are significant leaps ahead in terms of raw processing power and design from their predecessors, it may come as a surprise that PCs are already much more powerful and capable of producing even better graphics in games.

The PS4 for example uses two quad-core CPUmodules based on its Jaguar architecture , clocked at 1.6GHz, similar to comparatively low-end models found in current budget PC’s and laptops.Lets start by taking a look at the actual hardware. AMD, who already makes CPUs, graphics cards and APUs (an APU is a CPU with an embedded graphicschip) for PCs, is behind both the PS4 an Xbox One’s primary hardware.
Even though the PS4 sports two of these quad-core chips, offering a total of eight cores, most tests of desktop Jaguar-based APUs such as those in the Kabini range like the A4-5000 have them at between 30% and 50 as fast as an Intel INTC -0.29%Pentium CPU. To quote hardware review websiteAnandTech:
ULV IVB (ultra low voltage Ivy Bridge – a 3rd Gen Intel CPU found in current laptops) is around 30-50% faster on most CPU tasks… worst-case Kabini is one third the speed of Ivy Bridge
So in terms of raw processing power, even comparatively low-end PC processors are actually just as fast or faster than the PS4 and Xbox One, which sports a similar specification. However, it’s the graphics side of things that’s of more interest. AMD has designed custom Radeon GPUs for both new consoles, but both are similar to AMD’s Radeon HD 7870 – a mid-range graphics card that following the release of AMDs latest range of graphics cards such as the R9 290X, is now comparatively old when it comes to the hardware available for the PC.

The internal workings of the PS4′s hardware is a lot like that found in a PC – Image courtesy of Chipsworks – click to see original article
To be fair, though, AMD has included a number of optimizations that will mean that the new consoles are faster than the aforementioned PC equivalents. The PS4 for example, uses GDDR5 memory whereas the A4-5000 processor mentioned earlier is reliant on a PC or laptop’s slower DDR 3 memory.
However, the performance boost isn’t going to anything revolutionary and from my own tests on PC-based AMD APU systems, boosting the memory speed by around 30 per cent yields less than a 10% performance boost in games. Even using memory that’s twice as fast as DDR3 s is likely to result in less than a 40% speed boost. There are also architectural differences plus the consoles have to deal with a less demanding operating system than say Windows 8.1, however this is only likely to offer moderate additional performance.
Then there’s the issue of 4K. PC’s are already gaming happily at 4K – the successor to 1080p or HD, and while you need a pretty pricy PC to do it – easily seven times the price of a PS4, this will come down drastically in future as PC hardware manufactures gear their products to deal with the new ultra-high resolution.
There has been much speculation about 4K support on both the Xbox One and PS4 but most reports say that while 4K video playback is likely on the cards, 4K gaming may at best be upscaled, while PC manufacturers are already selling PCs able to output full 4K detail in games that support it.
Computer Planet Nvidia Battlebox -  a PC designed to play games at 4K
Computer Planet’s Nvidia Battlebox – a fully customized and water-cooled PC designed to play games at 4K
Price-wise, yes the PS4 and Xbox One are cheaper than a high-end PC, but using AMD’s desktop APUs instead of separate processors and graphics cards will limit the price of a PC to around that of the PS4 and allow you to play many games at 720p or 1080p. For example, combining an AMD A10-6800K, 4GB of RAM and a modest-sized hard disk but still opting for a good case and power supply will keep the cost to well below $450. In addition, you can then easily upgrade the PC when funds allow and you also have excellent gaming platforms such as Steam and Origin to play with too.
It’s each to his own, though -  the PC lacks the lounge-gaming fun of a console for the most part and while PC’s are certainly getting smaller, a console still represents a very compact way of playing the latest games and most people already own a TV, whereas a decent large gaming monitor is likely to be an additional cost.

For me though, the PC is still the ultimate gaming platform and thanks to its support for 4K, regular hardware launch cycles and the continuing support of game developers, I can’t see my view changing any time soon, especially as the knock-on effect of the new console launches will mean PC game graphics will get even better in future.

Google Wants To Make Your Passwords Obsolete


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The YubiKey Neo is a small, batteryless USB device that offers a very secure alternative to user-generated passwords.
If there’s one thing that decades of computer use have taught security experts, it’s that most of us are really bad at creating good passwords. After the recent data breach involving Adobe’s customer accounts, security researcher Jeremi Gosney took a look at the stolen data and found that the most popular user password was “123456″, with “password” not far behind. It’s a given in thesecurity industry that when consumers have a choice between safety and convenience, the latter usually wins.
Based on security technology found in the smart card devices favored by the military, the YubiKey Neo can be thought of as a digital key. Your Google account is the lock; one that is configured on-the-fly to accept only the YubiKey Neo in your possession. Because the YubiKey Neo and Google’s Chrome browser will engage in secure public-key encryption, the user-generated password you’d normally enter along with your username can be reduced to a simple four-digit PIN. The username and PIN simply state your identity. The YubiKey Neo is what actually verifies it.If Google GOOG -0.2% has its way, however, the very notion of typing in a password may soon be obsolete. In 2014, the Internet giant plans to release an ultra-secure and easy to use identity verificationplatform that eliminates the need for long, user-generated passwords. Dubbed U2F (Universal 2nd Factor), the consumer-facing side of this initiative will be a USB dongle called the YubiKey Neo. Built to Google’s specifications by security specialist Yubico, the YubiKey Neo is a small, durable and driverless device that requires no battery. Plugged into your computer’s USB port it will add a second, highly secure layer of verification when you point Google’s Chrome browser to your Gmail or Google Docs account. You’ll initiate the login by typing your username and a simple PIN. The browser will then communicate directly with the YubiKey Neo, using encrypted data, to authorize account access. With U2F verification, if someone wanted to login surreptitiously to your account, he or she would need to know your username and PIN while simultaneously having physical possession of that specific YubiKey Neo.
Although U2F logins are not yet available to the public, Google has already deployed several hundred thousand YubiKey Neo devices to its employees since the beginning of 2013, according to Yubico CEO, Stina Ehrensvärd. Google’s Product Management  Director for Information Security, Sam Srinivas confirmed the scope of the internal pilot program – as well as a 2014 public release – and says that the response to the device has been overwhelmingly positive, with employees remarking on the ease of use.
This is more than just a deal between Google and Yubico to provide more secure access to your Gmail account, though. Last February, Google joined the FIDO (Fast IDentity Online) Alliance, an industry standards group committed to effective, easy-to-use, open source solutions to Internet security. And when it joined the FIDO Alliance, Google published its U2F specification as an open standard, available to all interested parties. The Alliance, while still growing, includes heavyweights like PayPal, MasterCard MA +0.05%, Lenovo and LG Electronics , along with security specialists like NXP  Semiconductor and Yubico.
It’s clear to Google and everyone else involved in the FIDO Alliance that for U2F to be viable, it must be implemented across a broad range of consumer products and services. The goal is ambitious: to create a viable ecosystem of web browsers, apps and hardware authentication devices supporting the protocol so that users can have easy, secure access to shopping, financial and social sites from both their desktop and mobile devices.
Because the login information that you manually provide (username and PIN) is only the first step of authentication, representatives from Google, NXP and Yubico that I spoke with all emphasized that you can reuse your PIN across multiple sites without compromising security. A single four-digit PIN, used on every site you visit, would be a game-changer for consumers, and make hard-to-remember passwords a thing of the past.
While the YubiKey Neo is the first U2F-certified hardware device, FIDO Alliance members expect competition to soon follow, in the form of chips embedded into new computers and biometric-scanning devices that use fingerprints or other unique physical traits to verify identity. For now, the YubiKey Neo offers an interesting look at the possibilities of the U2F standard. One of the great usability benefits of the YubiKey Neo is that this single hardware device can work with any number of U2F-enabled sites. You could register the same YubiKey Neo to work with all of your email, banking and social media accounts.
User privacy gets a prominent role in the U2F specification. No personal information is stored on the device. Nor is it possible for a thief to determine the individual sites that your YubiKey has been configured to work with. Furthermore, because it’s a physical product, rather than a virtual one that can be surreptitiously copied, you’ll know when your YubiKey Neo goes missing.
Not to be overlooked is the fact that you will buy the YubiKey Neo, thus owning your digital “key” outright. While Ehrensvärd offered no firm details on pricing, she envisions scaling to the point where YubiKey Neos, “can be bought at your local 7-Eleven in packs of five.” You could keep the extras as backups. In the case of loss or theft, you will be able to disable the connection between the sites you log into and the missing YubiKey Neo, and simply register one of your backups, instead. And keep in mind that even if a YubiKey Neo is lost or stolen, anyone trying to use it to access your accounts would need to know which site or sites it was registered with as well as your username and PIN.
For mobile devices, the YubiKey Neo is currently limited to compatibility with NFC-enabled smartphones, a shortcoming that Ehrensvärd readily acknowledges. She tells me however, that they are working on a solution for non-NFC devices (iPhone, anyone?) and will be ready to announce a solution in early 2014.
The big news about Google’s participation in the FIDO Alliance is, of course, that its millions of users will be exposed to the U2F standard. And ultimately it’s consumers who will decide if a U2F ecosystem will develop and flourish. If U2F becomes synonymous with customer security, much the way SSL certificates did years ago, adoption rates will grow.
The promise of a digital life unencumbered by the need to create passwords is a tantalizing one. Beyond simple convenience, however, the U2F standard offers robust protection against malware that records your keystrokes, since there’s no password to type. Phishing attacks, in which you unknowingly submit information to fake sites, are greatly minimized as well. For an in-depth look at the U2F protocol, Google has posted several documents with details about the specification.
We shouldn’t get ahead of ourselves, particularly since there isn’t a publicly available product yet, but we may be on the verge of a much more secure Internet, with an implementation easy enough for consumers to actually use.

Samsung Galaxy S5 coming sooner than later, says report

The Galaxy S4 and S3 could have a new sibling sooner than later.
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The latest round of rumors has the presumed successor to Samsung's Galaxy S4, a more powerful Galaxy S5, sporting unicorn-esque specs, perhaps some new flexible materials, and craziest of all: launching as little as 10 months after the Galaxy S4 was introduced.
A Korean site reports that "industry sources" say production of the Galaxy S5 could begin in January, with Samsung's next flagship phone shipping with Android KitKat and alongside a revamped Galaxy Gear 2 watch as early as February or March. That would be a few months ahead of many early-adopting Galaxy S4 owners' one-year anniversaries with their devices.
But more importantly, what kind of unicorn is Samsung's S5 team designing this time around?While this sounds like wishful thinking on the part of some overzealous reporter and a who-knows-how-well-informed supply chainsource, it's also not a crazy plan for the likes of Samsung. The Korean monolith has the ability to make just about anything on a massive scale as quickly as it likes and likely has no qualms with cannibalizing sales of its zillions of other smartphone models, including the Galaxy S4.
The same report claims the phone could be available in a plastic case or a more premium model with a metal body, and will come loaded with some serious digital beef -- a 64-bit processor, 3GB of RAM, a 16-megapixel camera and a huge 4,000-mAh battery to power a 5-inch flexible display that could jam as many as 560 pixels into each inch of screen real estate.
Samsung had no immediate response to a request for comment, but certainly many Galaxy S4 owners won't be as speechless when the flagship phone they proudly brought home this year is eclipsed in less than the time it takes us all to make a single trip around the sun.

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Why The Texting Generation Is Actually The Lonely Generation

Why The Texting Generation Is Actually The Lonely Generation
Why in the hell do people not know how to text? This is going to sound like a rant, and it probably is, but I’ve seen this done so many times for me not to make an argument about it. Maybe a few of you will learn a thing or two. Hello, this is 2013, and I’m sure most of you reading this are in your 20s. So, you’re clearly old enough to have been apart of the texting world for quite sometime at this point.
I heard this lyric a while ago and at the time, yes, it made total sense, but right now it’s like a big sign in front of me, bright and shining with giant letters: “We’re just a f*cked up generation, so much technology, but bad communication.”
Now, I’m not going to sit here and say that I don’t love the technological advances that have sophisticated our generation. As someone growing up in this society, I love it. I love that you can send Starbucks gift cards with a single tweet and keep in touch with friends half way around the world in a matter of seconds. But, come on people; let’s use it correctly. I wish I could insert an ‘LOL’ here, because seriously, it makes me laugh that I’m even writing this.
In today’s world, we have iPhones, tablets on which we can instantly receive messages, as well as computers that do the same and more. You are never disconnected from the social media world and have enough presence on the web to the point where you know when someone is perpetually ignoring you. We live in a society where people can even carry out relationships with those they have never even met (i.e. “Catfish”), as well as the opposite: continue relationships long distance.
Online dating is so prevalent in our society that meeting a guy or girl in a person first is unheard of. Imagine meeting someone in a bar without having already looked at his or her Facebook, Twitter or LinkedIn page. Sometimes, you actually have to watch what you say so you don’t reveal what you know about this person due to the cyber stalking you did pre-date.
However, technology does have its amazingly beautiful aspects, which I want to touch on before I bash it.
My best friend joined the military not too long ago. We have been inseparable for ages, so I’m grateful to have things like video chatting while he’s half way around the world.
To think that there was a time when such technology was unfathomable and we had to resort to letter writing to keep in touch. Oh, what’s letter writing? You know, when you put pen to paper and have to wait up to a week to exchange responses? And we did that for how long? How? When my friends would see me writing all the time, they would ask, “Why don’t you just text him?”
Let me talk about this texting nonsense now, which is my main reason for this rant.
I’m not going to preach and state that I am not on my phone constantly. I’m apart of group texts with friends; I regularly text my sister; I’m constantly emailing my dad, and don’t even get me started with G-chat. But it’s when people abuse these resources that really irks me. Trust me, I know texting is a Godsend. It’s amazing to able to instantly speak to someone that you can’t see in-person or talk to on the phone even more conveniently. However, this “privilege” is slowly eliminating the actual physical presence of people in our lives and lessening our ability to properly communicate. It’s too much.
I was reading Emma Koenig’s blog ‘fuckiminmy20s‘ one night and came across one of her posts that really struck a chord with me. (By the way, if you haven’t checked out her blog or book, I highly suggest it because she is on point with life in your 20s, always.) The photo summed up the text conversation between two people: someone sends a text, you respond and then what? Nothing. Um, hello! YOU texted ME, remember?
I guess this is where my actual problem with texting comes into play. Are you staring at the screen thinking of how to respond? I know if we were talking face-to-face and I said something to you and you didn’t respond for two hours, I would assume something was severely wrong with you. Possibly I would think you were mental. I mean, you literally texted me two minutes ago and I answered right away, so how could you possibly be busy now? If you knew you were going to do something productive, then why would you text me to have a conversation? Oh right, likely because you want attention from me.
My friends would tell me not to respond to a guy right away who didn’t respond to me quickly enough. Are we still in middle school? I’m pretty sure I didn’t even do that in middle school. If that is the logic of people, then quite frankly, I don’t want you talking to me to begin with.
Don’t text me because you saw me make a status on Facebook and you just had to make a direct comment to me about it and then not answer afterwards. Keep it to yourself. Don’t text me and not answer when I ask a simple question in response, like “How are you?”
People enjoy communicating via telephone and text because it is the easy way out. That is the most logical and obvious way to put it. You can easily put a phone down, shut a computer or close a tab when things get too serious or don’t go the way you want them to. But my God, how would you deal with that in person?
Then, there are the cliché ways that people end these conversations because they are entirely too pussy to say they don’t want to speak to you. I mean is it possible for people to be painfully honest about how they feel? Trust me, I will respect you a lot more if you’re straight up with me than if you weave around how you actually feel.
If you can’t be honest with me, then just stay away from me. It will save us both a lot of time and over-analyzing. This is a shout out to all the people who respond to text messages with, “LOL.” Pretty sure what I said did not even have anything remotely funny attached to it. Just send an emoji of a gun next time because you’re just killing the conversation.
Then, there are the people who text and only ever want to text. A friend of mine was going through this situation and it just made me shake my head at this grossly stupid practice, which people actually participate in. Oh, that’s right, you want to talk to me all the time, but you actually don’t ever want to see me in real life. This makes so much sense! I understand some people are busy, but seriously, no one is that busy. If you want to see someone, you make the effort — plain and simple.
Texting has ruined the art of face-to-face conversation. Stop being pussies, people! If you want to talk to someone, do it.
“I used to call people, then I got into emailing, then texting, and now I just ignore everyone.” This caption of a cartoon from the New Yorker said it best.